Archive for January, 2010
· Categories Christianity, Church, Student Ministry
In December we decided to offer water baptism for our HS students in the gym (where we normally meet) during a Wednesday night service. In the past, the only 2 options for students to be baptized were in our Sunday worship services along with adults or at our Summer Camp in Panama City Beach, FL. We wanted to offer students an opportunity to go public in front of their friends in our worship context. So we bought a portable swimming pool and set it up in the gym. Several students were baptized that night, including one who took advantage of our spontaneous invitation toward the end. Below is a story I wrote for one of our church communication pieces about a young man who went public with his faith that night.
It all started with a conversation about religion.
That’s how Jacob Gillespie describes the events that led him to Mt. Paran North for the first time. Jacob is a 17 year old student at Sprayberry High School who began attending the High School ministry at North in the Spring of ’09. He was friends with MPN member Amy Sever and one night while they were talking she asked him about religion and his beliefs. He described his current views about the church and religion that he admits were not based on personal experience and just on perceptions since his family “never talked about church or religion”. However, Amy told him that his beliefs were similar to those of her church and invited him to come with her to a service. Though he claimed to be “afraid of church” and not wanting to get “sucked into the mess I thought it was” he accepted her invitation.
He goes on to say, “I had originally planned to wait until I was 18 to go to church just to avoid any influence from my family as to where to go and what to believe. I wanted my beliefs to be my own, but I knew I had an empty place in me that could not be filled by anything the earth has to offer.” So he began attending the High School Wednesday night worship service and Sunday School class with David and Helene Hindman before joining in the Sunday morning services in the Sanctuary. This thing he was once afraid of began to make him feel “complete” and “happy”.
After going to the HS summer camp in Florida his understanding of God began to grow. He said, “I learned that as a human I wasn’t too insignificant to matter to such a supreme entity because he loved me, and it was just that simple.” He started to use the skills he had been taught at camp to pray and read God’s Word, which brought on so many more questions.
Thankfully Amy’s parents, Charles and Sheila Sever were there with understanding and patience to answer his questions. Jacob said, “They would take any question I had, no matter how blasphemous, crazy, or disrespectful it was and calmly answer it because they understood my thirst was simply for knowledge and they were more then willing to help quench it.”
When we announced that we were going to offer water baptism in a HS Wednesday night service during December, Jacob knew immediately it was for him. He invited his family, and they enthusiastically agreed to be there for such a big moment in his life. On that December night Jacob was baptized and here is how he describes what he felt:
“When I finally came out of the water, I didn’t feel much different but somehow, I don’t know, I just felt clean. I know, ‘of course you felt clean that’s the point’ but it was weird. Like no matter how hard I could scrub in the tub there were these metaphorical crevices of muck and grime I just could not clean. I had never really noticed it before because it was all gradually accumulating, but when I came up I knew it was all gone.”
That night, the outward expression of baptism finally matched the inward change in his life over the previous few months. However, this story isn’t just about Jacob Gillespie. It’s about Amy Sever. It’s about her parents. It’s about the Gillespie family. It’s about the cross intersecting with a boy who’s family never talked about religion.
So he stepped into the pool with his family and friends sitting on the front row, and started talking about his new found religion!
January 26, 2010
· Categories Christianity, Church, Student Ministry
This picture is my mom holding my youngest son Tucker. He is 8 months old and already a sweet little kid who loves and fears his 2 older brothers at the same time.
Tucker has had trouble swallowing since he was very small. He nursed well almost from birth but as we tried to make the switch to baby food, solid food, bottles, sippy cups, etc he couldn’t do it. My poor wife has literally tried every kind of bottle known to man…he won’t take it.
At his most recent doctor visit his measurements showed him to be in just the 3% range for weight. So even though he is 8 months old, he measures like a 4 month old. Needless to say the doctor was concerned, and diagnosed him as “Failure to Thrive”. She very much attributes this to the fact that he cannot be sustained and continue to grow at the necessary pace on the consistency of the breast milk that has gotten him to this point. He needs more calories. He needs thicker foods. He needs food that will fatten him up and help him continue to grow like he needs too. She has given us some tips to try and referred us to a specialist. (Thankfully, after much prayer and patience he has begun eating a little better)
I am confronted by this idea of failure to thrive in ministry to students. How many of my students are still trying to live on the milk when they should have already moved on to the baby food, and solids and meat? A statement I heard that I love is, “don’t allow the longevity of a kid in our ministry to cause you to equate that with their spiritual maturity.” We must continue to prod them. We must continue to challenge them with “food” that will help them to grow. Eventually they have to become self-feeders. Corrie can’t be Tucker’s only source of food very much longer or it will be detrimental to his growth. The same is true of our students or me or you. They must be taught the skills of Bible reading, prayer, devotion, meditation, fasting, solitude, worship, etc.
If not we run the risk of having lots of babies who never get off the milk and aren’t strong enough to survive.
“By this time you ought to be teachers yourselves, yet here I find you need someone to sit down with you and go over the basics on God again, starting from square one—baby’s milk, when you should have been on solid food long ago! Milk is for beginners, inexperienced in God’s ways; solid food is for the mature, who have some practice in telling right from wrong.” (Hebrews 5:12-14 MSG) (via youversion.com)
January 25, 2010
· Categories Church, Family, Sports, Student Ministry
In my quest to lose a little weight this year I am working out a little more regularly. One of my favorite ways to get some cardio in is playing basketball. At my local YMCA 5 nights a week are open gym nights where anyone can play some pick-up 5 on 5. I’ve been over there a few times with mixed results. 
Last night I went and was able to play in a few games before they closed. In the first game I was guarding a guy named “D”. Great guy and I enjoyed talking a little trash with him throughout the night. He was by far one of the fastest guys I’ve ever seen on a court in person. This created problems for me, as my greatest strength is not the swiftness of my feet.
One problem, “D” couldn’t finish. He would blow right by people into the lane and realize he had gotten too far under the basket and have to throw a bad shot up toward the rim. Or he would get a rebound on our end of the court and take it the length of the floor only to dribble it off his foot just before he went up. Or he would make a spin move and attempt to pass it to a teammate streaking to the basket and throw it behind him.
I have never claimed in life or ministry to be the “flashiest” guy. I realize there are student pastors, husbands and fathers that get it right with way more regularity than me. That being said I hope that one thing I offer is consistency. Steadiness. Faithfulness. Those are qualities I admire in others and attempt to live out in my own life. To me this looks like:
- Under promising and over delivering.
- Giving the same effort for an event of 10 that I would 1000.
- Showing my wife affection like I did when we were dating…or more!
- Investing in my kids as much as I do in my job.
- Not creating new visions, ministries, goals, and theologies on a whim because of the latest book, sermon, or conference I’ve enjoyed.
- Starting out like I can hold (thanks to my Peepaw Lanier for this one)
It may look different for you. Just some thoughts from the Y!
January 22, 2010
